How the Dialogue Develops Becky’s Fears

Insecurity and being afraid often happen together. From my perspective, Becky’s fears of

failing are due to insecurity and lack of self-confidence. Anyone with such issues is likely to fall

into depression and uneasiness. Many things could affect her self-esteem and bring her fears, for

instance, problems at home or even peer pressure.

Becky needs to know that sometimes it is okay to fail as long as one learns the mistakes

and finds ways of conquering the fears. She should also learn that if she ever failed, it was because

she was trying to practice something right. Besides, it is upon her not to let her mistakes discourage

her and learn to love herself and accept her shortcomings.

According to (Said & Jamal, 2020), fear often stems from childhood, perfectionism, ego,

and over-personalization. Individuals can choose to see failure as “the end of the world” or proof

of how inadequate we are just like Becky, or people can choose to look at failure as a great learning